Tag: will power

Stubborn

The wedding of bengalee is celebrated with so pomp and grandeur but when you deep down to the relationships you eventually realise that some connections are forcefully connected. Bonding between people requires harmony and openness but that’s so less in real life. Your mother in law may state, ”you have to do work even when you become ill”, may avoid listening to your success and staff like that. When you tell all these to your husband he won’t believe you because of the emotional attachment that he shares with his mother. Then who suffers? After all of these everything should be normal. We have to forgive them all remembering their good selfish deeds?But how?? Why are people unable to say what they want to say? Why is the patriarchy so stubborn?

Inner Voice

The fine line between the inner voice and outer voice exists in such an ambiguous manner that our inner voice scatters sporadically. Reasons behind it could be that our situations are always given and we cannot choose the best one to fit into that better situation. We can sit alone and think, ‘this is very peaceful to sit alone and introspect’ and we can also think, ‘how can I spend my whole time without friends?’ So, we must know our true selves and find our inner voice.

Life is always poked but it’s our responsibility not to be poked unnecessarily. People are common when they follow majority but it’s important not to follow everyone’s footsteps. If one is dressed with flamboyance we should not follow his or her flamboyance because it may not fit into our characters. Being the one who loves his or her own voice requires courage and creditability.

Prod

There is a lot of buzz around my ear that sometimes upsets me. I don’t want to criticize people but they make themselves very apt to be criticized. Without knowing a person’s goal, ambition, passion, achievement, failure and personality how can people frown at what he/she is doing! If it’s not a cup of your tea then why are you making noise?

However, I can do nothing for them who are buzzing. What I can do for myself I will definitely do. Success for me is different from you doubtlessly. I could let me be where I am but no I will have faith in me to grow because I have my own dreams to fullfil.

I have a dream to know things, observe things, occupy my brain with knowledge and at last not to criticize you blatant people.

Work

It’s very hard to work where I have no one whose mental frequency matches with me. I don’t know how others with similar situation can cope with this huge crisis wrapped with colorful criticisms. Where your efforts are meaningless how can it be a just work for you? Atleast for me it is a disaster to listen to others in terms of ‘my work and me’. People who do not know me are splitting their contemptuous pride vividly to curve my spirit. Hey you! no matter how big, medium or small you are you don’t have the right to say. I won’t ever let you burn my spirit.

My passion won’t be dying. I will give every breath to my meaningful work and my meaningful microcosm.

Wake Up

Even when you are surrounded with a loud beautiful music, you can be very lonely; you can be fragile enough to lose your dreams, your true entity and most importantly your self esteem. Do you know if we could measure loneliness then what would have been used? Actually I am not asking it to anyone, I am asking myself. Whenever I do feel like I am getting out of my emotional control I try to rely on writing and it gives me nothing but some trivial courage to hold on, to hold on to something that can bring my true identity which is not so strong like the outer shell of a snail but resilient enough to face the challenges. However, if I calculate the number of letters I write during such emotional outburst it generally counts very less in contrast to the number of letters written during a calm mental state. Just like now I am finding no more words to continue my writing and reaching the thin line of mental state to start something which I want to do in future.

PS: (I know I am nothing if compared to the big and majestic and worldly success but still I defy to write genuine words which are not fake.)

It’s all about how to perfect the imperfections

We are hardly aware of our lives which unveil a lot of teachings that enable us to grow. People are nothing but a farrago of imperfections to me and life is an opportunity to turn those imperfections into perfectness.

Cherishing experiences, good or bad, that made us sustainable in our own journeys works like a bless that the nature has gifted us. I think nothing can teach us like our own experiences.

Perhaps we all know these basic things but still we question ourselves to get a solution. In this random era we are trying to acquire a random solution but we need to know that life is not random; life flows in a direction which is much awaiting.

Nowadays morality of people cracks jokes in the name of ‘Gyan’ or ‘wisdom’. Yes, we are so mere to judge the word ‘wisdom’. We should learn deep and try not to make this great word so witty and funny unconsciously or consciously.

Experiences and values are the only things that can’t be stolen. They are meant to be our true guide in our long and fruitful life.