The riddle of love,

If responsibilities, appreciation and commitment are there, then a relationship can live longer but if you really want to have the warmth of divine serenity in a relationship of love then you must stop thinking logically and practically and love someone selflessly without thinking about his or her caste, age, complexion, job, money etc. I guess. Most of us probably fail in the latter one. Of course then we are ‘not called losers’ in our society but if we fail to think practically, logically we are ‘definitely going to be called losers’. However, the concept of love is ambiguous enough to discover because when you discover you may either have it or lose it and there wouldn’t be a middle path to choose for. So, it’s a riddle and of course a beautiful feeling of being connected with someone.

Stubborn

The wedding of bengalee is celebrated with so pomp and grandeur but when you deep down to the relationships you eventually realise that some connections are forcefully connected. Bonding between people requires harmony and openness but that’s so less in real life. Your mother in law may state, ”you have to do work even when you become ill”, may avoid listening to your success and staff like that. When you tell all these to your husband he won’t believe you because of the emotional attachment that he shares with his mother. Then who suffers? After all of these everything should be normal. We have to forgive them all remembering their good selfish deeds?But how?? Why are people unable to say what they want to say? Why is the patriarchy so stubborn?

Inner Voice

The fine line between the inner voice and outer voice exists in such an ambiguous manner that our inner voice scatters sporadically. Reasons behind it could be that our situations are always given and we cannot choose the best one to fit into that better situation. We can sit alone and think, ‘this is very peaceful to sit alone and introspect’ and we can also think, ‘how can I spend my whole time without friends?’ So, we must know our true selves and find our inner voice.

Life is always poked but it’s our responsibility not to be poked unnecessarily. People are common when they follow majority but it’s important not to follow everyone’s footsteps. If one is dressed with flamboyance we should not follow his or her flamboyance because it may not fit into our characters. Being the one who loves his or her own voice requires courage and creditability.

Find

Find yourself every time when you can’t differentiate between your true self and the self that’s constantly being influenced by others. The surroundings may poke but can’t decide.

Quote

Some people are meant to have an ever-brewing materialistic mentality and society driven store of fake virtues.

Be a proud girl

Being a girl does not mean you have to do all the household stuffs. There are enough other works to hold on. Above family there is society which is to be more humane.

Night sky

Amongst the glittering chaos

There is peace in the darkness

There is hope of beauty,

In the night-light;

Maybe a little dim.

The shaking leaves of coconut tree

Don’t know where to stop

And how to, in the stormy waves

A trivial mind looking for likable silence

Amidst the monotony.

When the sky can’t tell nature’s destiny

It can wrap the globe with grey of clouds

It can behold the memories of love

That made the soil wet,

Plethora of imaginative lines

Drawing pictures of the night sky.

All about…

I know who I am to cherish my strengths but from childhood I thought of my family and perhaps sacrificed my most loving and passionate heart corners. The things that were inherent came forth never in front of people. I desired to be a teacher, I desired to be an artist, I desired to only learn things about nature. The surrounding told me to do this and that and still now is telling even after living on this earth for about 25years. I tried my level best in the field of emotion but could not satisfy perhaps a single one till now. I could not make someone understand who I am. Now, I don’t want to. I can’t die so easily but I can cherish my death from now.

The tilt

I don’t know whether I am repeating it or not but there is a sharp male biasness in our society. People talk about the favours that female candidates get in several competitive examinations but if we look at the majority, the women taking care of our households; how much dignity and respect do they get? I have seen most of them are not aware of their own existence and they are reluctant to raise their voice against anything abusive. Some women indulge themselves to let down other women and their capabilities. So we can’t blame any gender to be responsible. Gender equality is a ‘big term’ in our society and to reach that first we, the women should know our values and fundamentals.

Perceive

Every human being is supposed to have her or his own opinion. If you can’t respect I can’t help it. The truths are the perception because we perceive what we receive.

If you find someone not relatable to you don’t force yourself to relate. There would be things that you can’t do.