The wedding of bengalee is celebrated with so pomp and grandeur but when you deep down to the relationships you eventually realise that some connections are forcefully connected. Bonding between people requires harmony and openness but that’s so less in real life. Your mother in law may state, ”you have to do work even when you become ill”, may avoid listening to your success and staff like that. When you tell all these to your husband he won’t believe you because of the emotional attachment that he shares with his mother. Then who suffers? After all of these everything should be normal. We have to forgive them all remembering their good selfish deeds?But how?? Why are people unable to say what they want to say? Why is the patriarchy so stubborn?
Category: Factual
Inner Voice
The fine line between the inner voice and outer voice exists in such an ambiguous manner that our inner voice scatters sporadically. Reasons behind it could be that our situations are always given and we cannot choose the best one to fit into that better situation. We can sit alone and think, ‘this is very peaceful to sit alone and introspect’ and we can also think, ‘how can I spend my whole time without friends?’ So, we must know our true selves and find our inner voice.
Life is always poked but it’s our responsibility not to be poked unnecessarily. People are common when they follow majority but it’s important not to follow everyone’s footsteps. If one is dressed with flamboyance we should not follow his or her flamboyance because it may not fit into our characters. Being the one who loves his or her own voice requires courage and creditability.
Ambiguous Transition
If we observe our lives with a dedicated approach we can feel how life teaches us. Every transition of life gives us a valuable takeaway.
Sometimes, we cherish our lives so much that we forget to note down the tiny but very important things of our lives. Sometimes, we feel very low to take interest in anything else. So, it’s difficult to deal with such ups and downs. The more we try to simplify life the more it jumbles up.
Doing a particular job regularly promotes nothing but monotony and the ‘leap of faith’ turns into a ‘freak of worry’. Emotion has taken a backseat in such a way that the words are dwindling. Trying to write something provoking but I know it’s not happening the way I want.
The takeaway of now is ambiguity.
Life Is Like Chasing Others
In the stunning beauty of landscape
The clouds are passing, having different shapes
Some become symbolic and some don’t
The sky is limitless to accept all those.
But the chaos of the city,
And the glittering mouths are not safe.
Hiding secrets of days wrapping with grace!
Oh no! Only the shit has been left.
Growing no more,
Life is racing not knowing how to race more.
No more time to respect values and nature!
Life is like chasing others.
Body- Our body
In today’s fast world we are fascinated with our goals and dreams and often forget about how to take care of our thinking towards our own body, how to love them and most importantly how our body should respond to certain stimuli.
Every part of our body is important. If we hate certain parts of our body we can’t balance ourselves; it would be a trivial biasness towards our favorite cells. Just like the outer world catering plethora of ideas and attractions to our eyes our cells cater their appearances within ourselves. They can specify, differentiate and they can also commit but can we effectively do so in our psychological domain? The vulgar words used for the act of sex, body shaming are not so famous in the world of developmental biology. Rather than indulging our brain into the thoughts of hatred we can teach them to grow; though the nerve cells can’t grow in number now but they can grow connections and give us-‘synaptic plasticity’ to diversify our thought process.
Prevailing folds to unfold......... 