Wingless Angels

Why in India girls are so neglected? Since birth it seems to be her responsibility to bear all the stereotypical rules of a middle class family. Why did the blatant people take their freedom to live like a free bird? Why should ‘we’ only know how to behave, dress and talk! Is it just because of that holy X in our allosome or that sweet smell of estrogen! All we should do is to ‘compromise’?! Why we make no sounds and why we give all our emotions to boost up patriarchal mindset? Even after being independent we can’t do what we want. There will be thousands of cloaks to judge you and your capability. Most of the greedy eyes are here for us to offer beds of crimson roses but very few will gift us dews of a new winter morning. Yes we are still surviving, still growing but we are not living our lives. We are -”wingless angels”of our parents who fear to fly.

I ask, ‘why can’t we be we?’

WISH

I wish people could live of their own sometimes when the usual life sucks like a demon.

Take Care of your Psychology and take the word as easily as we say everything so easily

When I had a panic attack 2 years ago I was finding everything and everyone to be wrong. I was having some issues which I wanted to share. A horrible one but somehow could not share it with anyone. It was my second visit with my Doctor and while I tried to say my problems the appearance of my doctor was irritating. He was not interested to listen to my words, I felt. Later I thought why did he do so. I got my answer and it was that no one will listen to your words if you are not thinking and talking something reasonable and rational and realistic. From then fortunately I can handle me and my mind to cope up with my surroundings and people. Everything happens for a reason and we should rely on reasons to get the solution. Emotion is good but you have a superpower which is your brain do not underestimate that natural hub.

The Act of Living!

It is very easy to say live and live happily. In this diversified mankind do we really know what a life is! How is life and how does it differ from person to person? It seems to be the greatest secret of our journey.

Most of us are believing the beliefs but should we trust the beliefs only! I think our ‘beliefs’ are not trustworthy always because beliefs are something which create restrictions within our mind. I am not against believing but they are unfortunately not glib and flexible enough.

The art of living probably lies in a deep introspection. It is much like the war between your ‘personality’ and ‘your inner soul’.

Responsibility and goodness

Being responsible is not a bad thing but we should be kind and gentle to ourselves, so that responsibility does not become burden.

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It would be a boon for you if you have such persons in your life who can show their worst in front of you.

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Keep remembering the powers of you while you had done probably the most valuable and meaningful things in your life. Thus you can rebuild your strength and deal with any drowsy situation.

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If you want happiness only you will miss peace and if you want peace only you will miss happiness. For the survival of a person both are necessary because grievances are often and certain.

Grow to prevent bargain

As we grow we are supposed to deal with people of different ages and that is quite wavering to handle. The times with magnanimous matches just fly and we must be seeing mismatches everywhere in our lives. I think our childhood days of fairy similarities bargains till the end.

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Leaving things cannot make sense of love; rather if we cling to it and do work on that in any vehement condition, it eases.