Stubborn

The wedding of bengalee is celebrated with so pomp and grandeur but when you deep down to the relationships you eventually realise that some connections are forcefully connected. Bonding between people requires harmony and openness but that’s so less in real life. Your mother in law may state, ”you have to do work even when you become ill”, may avoid listening to your success and staff like that. When you tell all these to your husband he won’t believe you because of the emotional attachment that he shares with his mother. Then who suffers? After all of these everything should be normal. We have to forgive them all remembering their good selfish deeds?But how?? Why are people unable to say what they want to say? Why is the patriarchy so stubborn?